You do not have to let yourself be terrorized by other people’s expectations of you.
Have the courage to be yourself!
Blessings
“Michael”
Posted in Another Thought for Today, Michael, tagged be yourself, courage, expectations on February 28, 2011| Leave a Comment »
You do not have to let yourself be terrorized by other people’s expectations of you.
Have the courage to be yourself!
Blessings
“Michael”
Posted in Whitebird, Writing and Reflection, tagged discomfort, ego, falling, pedestal syndrome, perceptions on February 28, 2011| Leave a Comment »
A few years ago I was doing a lot of training programs within industry and with people from all walks of life.
I always enjoy working with people and meeting new people especially when I am immersed in facilitating training programs. I have learned through many experiences to expect the unexpected when you least expect it, and this situation certainly fit into that category.
A young lady walked up to me and was quite excited about meeting me. She stated that she had heard many good things about me, that I was very wise, and she knew that I had all of the answers that she was looking for her in life!
At that point I felt extremely uncomfortable and uneasy, so I began to look for the reasons that I would be experiencing these feelings. When I am looking for information I always end up asking questions of myself, so I started my search through asking me questions!
Although I was asking these questions I was still becoming more and more uncomfortable with this whole situation and put it down to the appearance of low self worth and nervousness in this moment, but something was still not sitting right for me!
At this point I stopped, examined my thoughts, checked out my beliefs and did a quick run through on how each of my thoughts create a belief, and how those beliefs will create an experience and this is when I came up with the understanding of what I call today THE PEDESTAL SYNDROME!
This syndrome can be very easily explained through this example and these definitions.
The woman in this example placed me in the position where I had all of the answers that she needed to get her life together. She was viewing me as the expert which can be considered a compliment in the highest regard, however, this compliment placed me in the position through her perception, of being on a pedestal.
The definition of pedestal really applies here:
Syndrome is:
This is when I quickly realized how my thoughts, beliefs and experiences have taught me that:
Every human being sees or observes their world through their own personal eyes, listens to or hears their world through their own person ears, and feels or senses their world through their personal knowledge, touch and intuition!
I therefore, can only assist people to find their own personal answers within them, and in this way I can stay away from Ego and Pedestal issues!
Peace, love, light and blessings
“White Eagle”
Posted in Thought for Today, White Eagle, tagged compassion, equality, love, valuable you on February 28, 2011| Leave a Comment »
I believe that Equality is one of most valuable gifts that I can give to myself in my lifetime here on earth!
Equality needs to be given to me by me first!
When you feel equal to everyone you encounter on your life journey, no matter who they are or where they are, you will have discovered the true, compassionate, loving and valuable you!
Peace, love, light and blessings!
“White Eagle”
Posted in White Eagle, Writing and Reflection, tagged creation, enjoy, gratitude, Needs, wants on February 27, 2011| Leave a Comment »
Many have asked me about the process of creating in life and how to get what you choose!
The Steps to Create are:
Peace, love, light and blessings!
“White Eagle”
Posted in Thought for Today, White Eagle, tagged creation, quiet contemplation, self care, self love, wishes on February 27, 2011| Leave a Comment »
There are times in life when I wish a nice quiet day would magically appear and it just doesn’t happen!
Wishes are great, however, it is the creation of the wishes by me that counts.
I have learned through life that wishes are exactly that, WISHES!
Creation is CREATION, so which one do I choose today?
I create for myself a quiet day for contemplation, self care and self love !
Peace, love, light and blessings to us all as we choose the day we wish to create…..Oops, be careful with the wishes!
“White Eagle”
Posted in White Eagle, Writing and Reflection, tagged growing, happiness, how to get what you want, intent, learning, qualities, relations on February 26, 2011| Leave a Comment »
Many years ago I was talking with a young woman about relationships, partnership, marriage and what she wanted in her life. Her thoughts were totally clear, she knew what she wanted and intuitively knew how her life would be for her.
She wanted to find a partner, get married, raise a family, work part time, be involved in the community and be happy. She was specific about the qualities that she was looking for in a life partner, how she would raise the children, the number of children she would have, the type of job that would provide her with all she required from a job, what she could do in the community that would be valuable to the community and what would bring happiness to her in her life. She believed that she was worthy, attractive, intelligent and desirable. She knew that if people did not understand her intent that they would not be considered an important connection in her life!
Her intent was clear, she believed it was up to her to create her life the way she knew it was to be. In hearing from her years later, she has it all!
What is fascinating for me today, is what I learned from this unique human being. When I first met her, my outside perspective and judmental way of living told me that none of this would become reality for her. I made my judgments based on the following information:
After I saw her again and heard about her life today, I questioned myself as to “How it is that she was able to obtain all that she intended to have in her life”?
Now I know that her intention and thoughts were clear, her beliefs were strong and she was not dictated from the outside of her being through socially conditioned experiences.
This young lady taught me much about my relationship with myself!
It is important to know that we are all connected, and with this connectedness, know that your relationship with all others in this world begins with you. It is important to understand that when you are more consciously aware of you, your thoughts, beliefs and how they create your experiences, all relationships will be much simpler!
Thank you my friend for all you provided for me to learn and grow!
Peace, love, light and blessings
“White Eagle”
Posted in Channeling, White Eagle, tagged family, frriendship, intimcy, relationships, value on February 26, 2011| Leave a Comment »
Every relationship that I have is unique!
I hear so much from many people who are confused about their relationships today:
and the list grows, but at this time relationship issues sure are surfacing big time!
What can we do differently to ensure that these relationships are of value to us in our lives?
The Channel speaks:
Where relationship begins is within you. The relationship that you have with you is the starting point for all relationships that exist in your world through you.
Begin by examining how it is that you relate to yourself. At this time on earth the major shifting and changing that is taking place is opening you up t all that you are from the inside of your precious being. You may notice others changing rapidly but are you aware of the changes that are beginning to unfold within you?
When the relationship within you is not consciously understood it may become more difficult to relate to and have a relationship with someone or something that is outside of you.
“The relationship that you have with you is simply the way that you relate to you”!
Remember that a relationship in your definitions is:
Also remember that relate is:
To understand the relationship you have with others you first need to understand the connection that you have to you!
Peace, love, light and blessings as we learn from ourselves and one another!
“White Eagle”