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You leave old habits behind by starting out with the thought, ‘I release the need for this in my life’
~Dr. Wayne Dyer~
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THOUGHT FOR TODAY

‎~ Fate will give you a chance, what you do with it is your choice ~
“Tanya”

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“We can never obtain peace in the outer world until we make peace with ourselves”!

“Dalai Lama”

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Feelings are the universal language of life!

Every human being has feelings, although we have all been taught in our socially acceptable systems through life to not express these feelings that are so natural to us all!

Today I choose to talk my universal language regardless of my social conditioning!

Peace, love, light and blessings!

“White Eagle”

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Can you relate, have you ever experienced these feelings?

If so, can you be empathetic?

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Empathy is a great gift to offer to others, but is it possible to have empathy for yourself?

When I am working with people I am a very empathetic person!   My life experiences and dealing with the experiences in the moment has provided me with the tools I need to have to offer empathy to others!

The greatest components of empathy to me are listening, understanding, compassion and having dealt with my own stuff so that I can listen, understand and have compassion!

What is the definition of empathy and how to show it:

Showing Empathy

To show empathy is to identify with another’s feelings. It is to emotionally put yourself in the place of another. The ability to empathize is directly dependent on your ability to feel your own feelings and identify them. 

If you have never felt a certain feeling, it will be hard for you to understand how another person is feeling. This holds equally true for pleasure and pain. If, for example, you have never put your hand in a flame, you will not know the pain of fire. If you have not experienced sexual passion, you will not understand its power. Similarly, if you have never felt rebellious or defiant, you will not understand those feelings. Reading about a feeling and intellectually knowing about it is very different than actually experiencing it for yourself.

Among those with an equal level of innate emotional intelligence, the person who has actually experienced the widest range and variety of feelings — the great depths of depression and the heights of fulfillment, for example, — is the one who is most able to empathize with the greatest number of people from all walks of life. On the other hand, when we say that someone “can’t relate” to other people, it is likely because they haven’t experienced, acknowledged or accepted many feelings of their own.

Peace, love, light and blessings!
“White Eagle”

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Let your heart lead you to the life you deserve!

Shared by “Mindy”

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The two most powerful words that exist today, in my opinion, are YES and NO!

 There is not a choice I have made that cannot be dealt with by using one of these two very powerful words.

There are some problems that do arise from using these words and it stems from how we are conditioned to use or not use these words in our life time.

Have you been given permission in your life to use the word NO?

When I was a child I remember being told to not say NO!  It was rude and impolite.  By receiving that message at a very young age, it limited my choices and led me through many life experiences that I really did not want to have in my life.

On the other hand I was also taught to not agree with everything in my life, and to be cautious of saying YES to those people who may want to use me for their own gain!  What a non-decision making position I was in.  If I said NO I was rude, if I said YES I was used!

I was so thankful when Neurontology came into my life and I learned about these two very small but powerful words that created the greatest problems for me in my life.

Through learning about Neurontology, I learned to handle these words by first understanding which word I needed to use in order to change my behavior and be honest with myself.

My inability to say NO led to my greatest problems, so I learned to always preface the word NO with YES.  All it takes is using the word, changing the context and it is saying NO in a way that my pre-programmed self can handle.  The phrase I use today when I want to say NO is…….YES, I WOULD LOVE TO BUT I CAN’T!  It is certainly amazing how people do not push me to say YES to something I choose not to do when I use this statement.

If you are a person who knows how to say NO and use it as a defense mechanism that stops you from learning and growing, you to can use the word in the same way!  When I use this phrase and feel that I need to justify the NO, it becomes simple……NO, I haven’t, or NO way but I am willing to try it!

Enjoy the play with what you say today! or not!

Peace, love, light and blessings!

“White Eagle”

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