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Your work is to discover your world
and then with all your heart give yourself to it.


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Those who have gone before you who are you exist within the depths of your inner being, heart, or soul.  There are many who walk earth plane today who have learned to access this wonderful part of their being.  These precious people are sometimes known to those who are outside of themselves as different, weird, or not in touch with reality.  This is not so,  for as you learn to become who you are, you too will be learning to access this larger part of yourself which may have become lost to you through the systems of control and brain training that exist today.

You are spirit, you are inner being and you are a part of all that is in your world!  There are many who walk earth plane that catch glimpses of who they are, and it is unfortunate today, that the reality of who you are has been encompassed in mis-taken identities that come to you from the socially conditioned environment in which you live. You are mind, body, emotion and spirit.


Peace, love, light and blessings

“White Eagle”

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Several years ago a young couple showed up in my office for Grief Counselling.  Their 12 year old daughter, Sarah, had just died in an accident and they were in great need of someone to listen to them and help them to understand what had happened.  They were looking for guidance, support and answers.  The grief they were experiencing was immense.  Sarah had been so alive only a short time ago and all of a sudden she was physically gone.

The most amazing things began to happen as I sat in the office with them offering my support and compassion.  I felt cool drafts of air running past me, I would look up and see a shadow of Sarah, I felt tingling sensations through my body, and I intuitively knew that she was with us in spirit.  As Sarah’s Mom talked, calmness started to move through me and I knew that Sarah was guiding us through her passing and the grief that existed for us all in that moment.

Sarah was a member of a 4H Club and had gone on a group outing to pick rocks on a ranch outside of the city.  She had an inner ear infection and was not well, however, she was really looking forward to her outing with the group.  While she was picking rocks, she lost her balance and was run over by the wheels of a tractor.  Sarah’s sister and her aunt were with her when she died.  As with any accidental death, the people who you are close to  tend to question what they could have done differently so that this would not have happened.  Her Mother and Father sat with me today wanting to remove the pain of losing their daughter by blaming themselves.  Mom said she should have stopped Sarah from going and believed it was all her fault.  She had always been protective of Sarah and was questioning why she hadn’t protected her this time.  In that moment I knew from my connection with Sarah and her presence in the room with us, that it was simply Sarah’s time to go.  She had much to do outside of the physical world and she was embarking on a journey that would not be easily understood by those who did not know about life, death and life purpose both here and in the world of spirit.  Sarah’s life on earth was filled with her love of family, friends, animals and all of Creators wonders.  She was a 12 year old who had given much of her true self to all she encountered on earth.  When Sarah passed on a tree was planted in her honor outside of the school she attended.  Sarah was and still is, physically and spiritually an angel who wants to help others and immerse herself in the beauty of every part of her life.  She wants this earth, the world to be a better place to live in for us all.

While she was on earth, she loved to work in her mother’s store, be with and take care of her animals, spend time with her family, her friends and enjoy the beauty of each moment that she was immersed in.  Sarah’s compassion for others was, and still is outstanding.  She was an angel in her physical life and is now an angel in spirit.  She creates some of the most amazing ways to let people know that she is O.K. and doing what she needs to do now in spirit.

The first encounter for me with her spiritual presence was very strong.  Sarah has been ever present and creative in the ways that she lets people know that she is still with them.  The day of Sarah’s funeral there was a beautiful rainbow in the sky that seemed to end right where Sarah was at the site of the funeral.  At the scene of the accident where Sarah died, a beautiful big heart shaped rock was found right on the sight of where the accident took place.  From that point forward each time her family was missing her physical presence, a heart shaped rock would miraculously appear for them.  During the time I was counseling her family, I had a bag of Apache Teardrop stones that I used to give out in programs to remind us if life should seem dark, we knew to hold the stone to the sunshine and the darkness would be gone and light shines through, just as it does in every moment in our lives. One day I reached into the bag of apache tears while I was thinking of Sarah, and to my surprise I found an apache tear I had never seen before.  It was a perfect heart shaped stone with a small chip in the corner.  Every stone from Sarah seemed to have that same chip out of the corner of it.  Every time one of the stones showed up it was to assist with the lack of her physical presence in our lives and to overcome the overwhelming grief that people were feeling.  For me it was always the time to acknowledge her presence spiritually in my life.  Sarah is still very much with us all which became very evident to me today while I am writing her story.  Knowingly, I have sensed her presence and I understand how important it is to get her message out into the world.  Just as I began to write her story, her mother called me and asked if I would listen to a letter that she had just written to send to her sister, whose husband had just died in an industrial accident.  Strange occurrence, you bet, but that is the magic of Sarah.

I know that Sarah is very much present with her family, friends and me, whenever she is needed.  Her angelic presence is never missed by those who know her story, and those who understand the gift of her compassion and caring on earth plane and beyond.  There is never a rainbow in the sky that does not remind me of Sarah, and when her uncle passed on, surprisingly there was the most beautiful double rainbow that appeared in the sky directly over her family’s neighbourhood.  At that time I was driving home from visiting friends who had just lost their first grandchild.  I immediately thanked Sarah for her presence as I do every moment that I am aware of her being with me.

Note:  Two years later as I was getting this ready for publishing, again Sarah was with us in spirit.  Amazingly, the day that this part of the book was being typed was the anniversary date of her death.  I consciously had no recollection of the date of her passing, however, I had been thinking about her mother and I knew it was time to call her.  What a surprise to find out that this was a very important date for Sarah and her family.

I appreciate you Sarah for all that you are and all that you give to everyone that you touch with your presence.

Excerpt from “My Awakening Journal, A Journey to Enlightenment..previously blogged on Soulwritings!

Peace, love, light and blessings!

“White Eagle”

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Elizabeth Kubler Ross explains it well.  These may be the stages that you go through in dealing with loss.  For each human being it is a unique journey that will involve some or all of  The stages, popularly known by the acronym DABDA, include

Denial — “I feel fine.”; “This can’t be happening, not to me.”
Denial is usually only a temporary defense for the individual. This feeling is generally replaced with heightened awareness of possessions and individuals that will be left behind after death.

Anger — “Why me? It’s not fair!”; “How can this happen to me?”; ‘”Who is to blame?”
Once in the second stage, the individual recognizes that denial cannot continue. Because of anger, the person is very difficult to care for due to misplaced feelings of rage and envy.

Bargaining — “I’ll do anything for a few more years.”; “I will give my life savings if…”
The third stage involves the hope that the individual can somehow postpone or delay death. Usually, the negotiation for an extended life is made with a higher power in exchange for a reformed lifestyle. Psychologically, the individual is saying, “I understand I will die, but if I could just do something to buy more time…”

Depression — “I’m so sad, why bother with anything?”; “I’m going to die soon so what’s the point… What’s the point?”; “I miss my loved one, why go on?”
During the fourth stage, the dying person begins to understand the certainty of death. Because of this, the individual may become silent, refuse visitors and spend much of the time crying and grieving. This process allows the dying person to disconnect from things of love and affection. It is not recommended to attempt to cheer up an individual who is in this stage. It is an important time for grieving that must be processed.

Acceptance — “It’s going to be okay.”; “I can’t fight it, I may as well prepare for it.”
In this last stage, individuals begin to come to terms with their mortality, or that of a loved one, or other tragic event.
Kübler-Ross originally applied these stages to people suffering from terminal illness. She later expanded this theoretical model to apply to any form of catastrophic personal loss (job, income, freedom). Such losses may also include significant life events such as the death of a loved one, major rejection, end of a relationship or divorce, drug addiction, incarceration, change in office environment, the onset of a disease or chronic illness, an infertility diagnosis, as well many tragedies and disasters.

Elizabeth Kubler Ross

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“Focus on the good happening in your life and you will become a magnet for abundance as the life’s difficulties dissolve into solutions. You always are – and always will be looked after because the Universe is always working on your behalf.”

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