Posts Tagged ‘being real’

The soul loves the truth. When you acknowledge to yourself the truth of what you truly feel.. .  grace descends upon you.
Denise Linn

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‎”You should be spending the days, times, hours, moments of your life to express your experience through you, as you, who you really are.”

– Neale Donald Walsch-
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Have you ever run into a person that exudes positive thoughts all of the time?
The first time I ran into a person who radiated all of these positive vibes, I certainly was perplexed and annoyed by it!

I was working in the counselling department of a high school and it was one of those days! Kids were upset, teachers were stressed, every problem that I could think of I seemed to be right in front of me on this day!  What a day it was and then out of the blue a youth worker entered into my space, smiling a bright and toothy grin, full of sunshine, lollipops and rainbows telling me what a wonderful day it was!

Wow, what a shock this was for me to encounter on this day from hell!

I remember looking at her, shrugging my shoulders and leaving quickly before this wonderfully positive individual received a whole load of negative feedback from me!

I went back to my office after dealing with a couple of situations and was looking forward to sitting down, grounding myself, and pulling myself back together again……..and there she was!  Waiting for me!

She was still smiling, overly optimistic, and annoying!  I took the time to take a few deep breaths, entered my office and sat down to talk with her.  To my amazement, she was not the positive person that she portrayed on the outside.  When she was stressed out, nervous, angry and upset, she smiled and overcompensated on the outside because of how she felt on the inside.

I learned a lot from her on this day about positive thinking!  Being positive in life needs to be real, if I am exuding a positive attitude in life I need to:

  • feel positive from the inside out
  • remember that animals show their teeth and grin when they are about to attack
  • be congruent in each moment with my thoughts, feelings, beliefs and physical being
  • recognize that it is OK to have a bad day too!

Now on a positive note, go out and create yourself a great day full of realness!

Remember, if it isn’t feeling great right now, you can change it once you recognize it, but only if you choose to and it is real for you!

Peace, love, light and blessings!

“White Eagle”

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As I look back on the years that have passed, I realize that I was another kind
of Creature that was not human!
I didn’t realize it at time but now I see  that I was a Chameleon!
I am not saying that I changed color but I made sure that I  fit in to become a part of
any situation or group of people that were around me at the time .

Old, young or my age, or in other words all relations,
so if  I could be like a chameleon, I could do what I
wanted to do because I would blend in, be the fly on the wall
and no one would be the wiser, for I fit in so well!
So as the years pass I  find myself with so much knowledge
and understanding about myself and others around me,
that I am free to feel the energy that surrounds me or to
get a heads up if there was  a change in people.

What I mean is I will feel the change before things happen or
a heads up , when others don’t feel it.
For exsample: if I am in a situation where people are
having fun and something happens and there is a negative
energy,  I can feel it change like a radar.  I  get a chill or a feeling of uneasiness
and then in a matter of minutes the crap begins.

There is a catch to being able to do this.  I can only do it when I am clear,
not drunk, the booze just clogs it,and sends me to the danger
but when I am sober I can feel it much easier,
and I can get out before anything happens.

What about you?  Are you a chameleon because of  booze?  What can you feel?

If so give being clear a  try, dare to be you, walk your own walk, talk your own talk and
step out of the crowd!

Be counted as a real human, with a twist of chameleon
know how, not just a chameleon who doesn’t know how!

The rest will be up to you .

“Wandering Eagle” (Dean)

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For a long time, it had seemed to me that life was about to begin–real life.

But there was always some obstacle in the way, something to be gotten through first, some unfinished business, time still to be served, a debt to be paid.

Then life would begin.

At last it dawned on me that these obstacles were my life. —

~Alfred D. Souza~

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The human being I am today, is certainly not visibly and behaviorally  the same human who existed several years ago!

This is the story of what was once known as the Lady of Stone………… that lady was me!

As a child I was taught to excel, be smart, do things right, think before I spoke, use my head, and excel in everything that I did. It was a difficult road for me attempting to be perfect, when inside I felt imperfect, excited about learning from my mistakes, I loved to play, sense my world and everything that existed in it. When I reached my early teenage years, the perfection that was expected of me was just too much so I became a rebel who wanted to explore my world my way. This was not to be if I wanted to succeed in life, so I changed my life around and learned to shut off all of my feelings, gave them all up in order to be successful in school and life.  I believed within me that I would never be good enough, never succeed in life, and I knew that in order to belong in this world and this society it was important to not feel.  Feelings were for women, and women could not move ahead in life having feelings, so I shut them all off and entered to the world of men, education and total brain training.  The more I trained my brain, the more removed I became from my feeling self.  I eventually got to the point in my life where I had descriptive words for only three feelings:

  • Good
  • Bad
  • Angry

It was not to long before I even gave up those feelings, or any indication that I even knew what those feelings were.

You see, any sign of feelings, I believed left me vulnerable and open to the world around me, and the world that I lived in was not a kind and loving world, it was a world of business, success, control, hurt and manipulation!  This is when I knew that I had successfully become the Lady of Stone and I believed this kept me safe from the outside world!

After many years of being stuck in my head and my thoughts, my world started to spin out of control.  I became only a walking shell of a human being, and I was led to take a course which saved my life.  This course taught me to be a human being mentally, physically, emotionally and spiritually.  I learned to have feelings, accept me and be real!

During this course many strong individuals assisted me to understand how I had locked up my feelings, how I believed that showing any sign of emotion or feeling, was viewed by me as being a weakness and would stop me from moving ahead intellectually, monetarily, physically and successfully in life.

Wow, did I have that mixed up!

Once I relocated my feeling self, I became real, successful and in touch with reality and all of the beauty in this world.

Today I know how I feel, how to change my feelings, live in the moment and be real!  I accept the success and lessons  that come to me from being  all that I am, with all that I feel, sense and believe !

Every day I give thanks for the understanding I have gained through knowing my feeling and emotional self !

Peace, love, light, blessings and reality f or us all today!

“White Eagle”

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When I worry,  I tend to get tied down within my self made indoctrinated beliefs and have to exist without my FREEDOM to be!

In examining the word freedom, I found some of the reasons that freedom moves out of reach for me.

Freedom is many things, and much of my time has been spent attempting to determine what it is to me personally, when I didn’t get it, it became a worry for me!

The Encarta provided me with the following information!

  • ability to act freely: a state in which somebody is able to act and live as he or she chooses, without being subject to any undue restraints or restrictions
  • release from captivity or slavery: release or rescue from being physically bound, or from being confined, enslaved, captured, or imprisoned
  • country’s right to self-rule: a country’s right to rule itself, without interference from, or domination by, another country or power
  • right to act or speak freely: the right to speak or act without restriction, interference, or fear
  • absence of something unpleasant: the state of being unaffected by, or not subject to, something unpleasant or unwanted
  • ease of movement: the ability to move easily without being limited by something such as tight clothing or lack of space
  • right to occupy place: the right to use or occupy a place and treat it as your own
  • frankness: openness and friendliness in speech or behavior

To clarify this definition I refer now to what my Channel has to say:

Every Human being today wants to be free. Freedom is a state of being and when the Human Being is integrated the mind will recognize that we are all free. Every person journeying through life has this one common goal.

The unfortunate occurrence which exists today is that the outside social conditioning has become restrictive in allowing us the freedom to be who it is that we are, and has unknowingly removed our rights as a human being free to express ourselves outside of the rules which govern us through social conditioning.

This creates worry! In relationships, there are accepted rules, in the work we do, with our families, with our leisure activities and mostly the human being places restrictions on themselves in the name of being accepted and acceptable from the outside.

Inside of every human being today exists a freedom that most human beings do not recognize because of the constraints, which they place upon themselves. They become locked up so to speak and governed by sets of rules, expectations, regulations, fears, indoctrination and outside forces, which blind them to their own personal abilities and needs.

This freedom, which exists, comes from inside of oneself and the ability of our brain to register this freedom has been temporarily shut down. Every Human Being will find this freedom within themselves provided that they have an understanding of what this word means to them, and start on the process of understanding when it is your brain that is telling you through the outside social conditioning that your true freedom is being shut down.

Every human being who is integrated will have an understanding of freedom, which is unique to only themselves!

Peace, love, light and blessings

“White Eagle”

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