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There are definitely times in life where there seems to be no answers to questions that arise! One of the greatest challenges for me today is dealing with the large number of young adults and youth that seem to be vanishing into thin air!

  • Where are they?
  • What are they doing?
  • What have they done?
  • Who are they with?
  • Are they still on earth plane?
  • Are they by themselves?
  • Did someone abduct them?
  • Are they still alive or have they passed on?
  • What can I do to help them in life or in spirit?
I feel very fortunate to have a number of very gifted human beings in my circle of being and each time I hear of another missing person, I seem to automatically be locked in with those who are gifted as well as all of those who have gone before me who are me.
What this helps me to understand is that many of these young people have dropped out of this society of ours for many different reasons.
One thing that seems to come forth from many of them in spirit is an intense feeling of sadness, however, what comes along with that sadness for them is unknown to many of us today.
For all of us who are reading this, it sure is important now to reach out and touch the hands of many of our young people who are around us today to help them to cope with the sadness, guilt and hurt they carry here on earth plane.
I know that my way of dealing with each of them is by treating them as the unique individuals that they are, without judgment, prejudice and definitely allowing them to be real and own who they are and what they are going through Mentally, Physically, Emotionally and Spiritually today.
In this small way, I hope that this acceptance will help them to find their way in this world, and I know if they are being abducted that anyone who is doing this will also be able to open up to those of us on earth plane that are able to listen to help them find their way in this world without harming themselves and others!
Peace, love, light and gratitude to all who hold out their hands without judgment today!  To those who are lost and hurt, may you find the hand that you need to bring you back to those who care and are here for you!
“White Eagle”

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Have you ever stopped to wonder the reasons for people being so critical of other people?

I have listened to criticism my whole life, either people being critical of me, or of them being critical of others who are sometimes not even present to protect themselves. I have placed this in those things that are no longer important in my life, however, when I hear these comments made I still feel annoyed.  How can we today stop this criticism?

Today I take responsibility for me and know that only I can be  consciously aware of any criticism I make, knowing that what I say about others, is really me talking about myself and my behaviors.  Thank you Creator!

Peace, love, light and blessings!

“White Eagle”

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DISCOVER THE TREASURE CHEST OF RESOURCES WITHIN YOU THROUGH COMMUNICATION!

RESPECT

  • Did you know that approximately 90% of all communication is non verbal.  Respect the uniqueness of the person talking. You may not be understanding what they are and are not saying.

EXPRESSION

  • What does your expression tell others, and what does theirs tell you?

SILENCE

  • Know when to talk and when to be silent!

OBSERVE

  • Observe you, your actions, body, feelings and how they are affecting your communication with the other person.  Observe the other person and what they are saying through their body, actions and feelings, not just their words.

UNDERSTAND

  • Learn how to speak, listen and process the other persons words by first understanding how you personally speak, listen and process information.

RESTATE

  • Let the other person know what you heard them say, and clarify for them what you have said if you don’t think that they understand you.  Be clear and direct.

CENSORING

  • The person you are communicating with will only hear what you are saying from their personal perception.  When you are listening to them remember to understand their perception without clouding it with your perception.

EXPECT THE BEST

  • You get what you expect!  Begin with the end in mind.  How do you want it to be?  This is called intent!

When you expect the best it comes to you when you use your LISTENING SKILLS

Listening Requires:

  • Silence
  • Patience
  • Tuning Out Distractions
  • Focusing on the person speaking or communicating
  • Getting Information
  • Hearing the words, intent and feelings

WHEN WE LISTEN
We create an environment for each other of understanding, consideration and cooperation. We serve each other through our willingness to let others have their personal rights in likes, tasks, tastes, habits and opinions

LISTENING HELPS US TO ACCEPT EACH OTHER WITHOUT ATTEMPTING TO CHANGE THE OTHER PERSON INTO WHAT WE EXPECT THEM TO BE.

Peace, love, light and blessings

“White Eagle”

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