Posts Tagged ‘love isn’t’


The word love has become to be different from every human being who encounters this word. Love was intended to be a word, which represents the human beings undefined wholeness, which is being connected to all that is. This word has changed in it’s meaning with the evolution of the human. Every human understands this word in a different way from the outside of ones being. Love to one human may mean pain; love to another human being may mean happiness, to another joy, to another caring, to another anger, to another completeness. This word in it’s purest sense should be to be at one with, however it is through the outside conditioning in the world that this word is not definable at this time. The word love is being misused to define the relationships, which exist between two individuals.
What is your love language?

What were the messages that were given to you throughout your life, which led you to adopt the beliefs that you hold about love?

Love as it is defined today is simply an individual definition, which is registered in the brain of every human on the face of the earth.
When you see this word in this way, what does this word mean to you. Does it mean that you enjoy being a part of all that is; does it mean that there is an accepted belief about what it is to every human on earth? This word is one of the most un definable words that there is today, however, it is also one of the most frequently used words today, that is supposed to mean the same thing to every person who encounters another living being today. It is through this word that many of the social problems of today have developed and the structure of your society today is breaking down because of it.

  • There is a love for you,
  • a love for your parents,
  • a love for your children,
  • a love for your friends,
  • a love for your life partner,
  • a love for the earth,
  • a love of animals and
  • a love for life.

This word has not even the same meaning to everyone who encounters it when speaking of self-love. When the word love is used in the context of today’s social conditioning the problems which you will encounter are insurmountable, and this word is leaving doctors, psychologists, psychiatrists, counselors and every person who walks the earth plane in a helping capacity stupefied.

In polarity, is love hate, and hate love?

The uniqueness of this word comes not from the inside of oneself, but from the social conditioning which exists in the world today. When the earth plane came to be to the word love meant only to honor the unique self, to be at one with and connected to and to honor all of those who were a part of the earth plane for being unique and wondrous entities who inhabit the planet. Such a long way the earth has come in the definition of one word, which in its truest sense was one, which the mind registered at one with. This word created the direction and provided response able decisions to come from the uniqueness of every living thing, and provided the mind with the ability to censor individually what was spontaneous in this life. This word is no longer representative of the inner self and sensing, it is only representative today of what social conditioning defines it as. We are very concerned about the state of the earth at this time, and the disguise of all that has come to be under the illusion of love. Love has now become a word of manipulation, conditioning and control over the earth and other human beings. In order to get back to the true definition of this word, it needs to come from within every human being, and the honor which is bestowed on yourself, can then be bestowed on all of the earth’s creations which will create what the world was intended to be; a true, and loving planet where all can sustain in beauty and life. This concept of love is a difficult one to write about, due to the fact that the conditioning of this word comes from a place which is outside of oneself and it is difficult to have people understand that there is not one definition for this word today that will fit with every unique individual who is on the earth plane. This word needs to be examined from an individual perspective, not from the outside of oneself, in order to determine how you fit in with the social conditioning of today, but to first acknowledge and define how this word fits with your uniqueness in life. In the case of the word love, so many of the human’s today are experiencing the pain of the brain creating interference with their precious unique understanding of the word love. When you remove all of the social conditioning and outside meanings of this word, you will find that there is a pureness, and innocence which exists within us all, and it is through this pureness and innocence that the true meaning of the word love will surface and lead you towards your purpose and a stronger unique self on the earth.

When the word love is no longer synonymous with ownership, control and domination the earth will become a place of peace and compassion beyond what the human being has knowledge of in the now.

Love will then be able to flow easily through every human being and the earth will flourish and sustain itself through the energy of the human beings who truly recognize their importance to the earth minus the social conditioning and brain training which is so accepted by the earth today.

Peace, light, blessings and much love

“White Eagle”

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In the work that I do counselling people on their life issues I always find Valentines day to be one of the busiest days for counselling!

The reason for this is  because of relationship counselling and on this day all of the inadequacies within a relationship seem to surface. These relationships are not just with boyfriend/girlfriend or husband/wife. They are between all human beings, friends, families and relationships in general.

The drama involved in Valentines day can be overwhelming for many who are not really sure of what love is!

Today in this moment I will be eternally grateful for the movie “Love Story”  that defined love as:

“Love means never having to say your sorry”!

In this moment, knowing what love isn’t can be a great place to start!

While doing marriage counselling in the last week, it has been amazing how many people have given me this as a definition of what love is!

Remembering that love begins within me, and flows outward from me to all I encounter on my journey today is a key for me to have a happy Valentines Day and that means not having to say I am sorry to myself as well!

Peace, love, light and blessings on this day of what love is and isn’t!

“White Eagle”

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